"Hours fly
Flowers die.
New days,
New ways
Pass
by; Love stays." -Henry Van Dyke

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Wouldn't it be better if we just let go, and let people be who they are? Then we'd be able to see them as they are -with all their beauty and goodness in which we take joy, and with all their faults which we can also see in ourselves.

Sometimes people come into your life
and you know right away that they were meant to be there,
they serve some sort of purpose,
teach you a lesson
or help figure out who you are
and who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be:
your neighbour, child, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger
who, when you lock eyes with them,
you know at that very moment that they will affect your life
in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you
and at the time they seem painful and unfair,
but in reflection you realise
that without overcoming those obstacles
you would have never realised
your potential strength, will power, or heart.

Everything happens for a reason.
Nothing happens by chance
or by means of good or bad luck.
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity, all occur to test the limits of your soul.

Without these small tests,
whether they be events, illnesses, or relationships,
life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road to nowhere,
safe and comfortable,
but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life
and the successes and downfalls you experience
create who you are,
and even the bad experiences can be learned from;
In fact, they are probably the poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you , or breaks your heart,
forgive them,
for they have helped you learn about trust
and the importance of being cautious
to whom you open your heart...

If someone loves you,
love them back unconditionally,
not only because they love you,
but because they are teaching you to love
and opening your heart and eyes to things
you would have never seen or felt without them.

Make every day count.
Appreciate every moment
and take from it everything that you possibly can,
for you may never  be able to experience it again...

Talk to people you have never talked to before,
and actually listen,
let yourself fall in love,
break free and set your sights high...

Hold your head up
because you have every right to.
Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself...
for if you don't believe in yourself,
no one else will believe in you either.
You can make of your life anything you wish.

Create your own life

 and then go out and live it!!!
"Live Each Day As If It Were Your Last...
Tomorrow is Not Promised"

You cannot do kindness too soon
because you never know how soon it will be too late...

 

October with those gray rainy short days is here again and this is the fifth October that I am here. I really used to here now and I feel as comfort as it was my homeland from the first. I don't have any more nostalgia as I experienced the first years, , I just had the usual homesickness for my parents and our home , might be I used , but is it good ? No more yearning just cultivating for tomorrow.

I have such a strange kind of emotions about everything which even made me confused. I will write about them one day when I senesce and see the events of today from the eye of tomorrow and see how much I was youthful and immature these days.  I will think one day, of all the thoughts I ever fought and frightened and I am sure I'll be amazed with all of my today concerns. In difficult times , I just remember my Mum , all the times when I am worry about something she is telling me : " Don't worry my darling , you will achieve everything which you wish as you did so far. You can make anything you wish of your life. Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.  Learn a lesson in life each day that you live! Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday. Was it worth it?  Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. “, but why tomorrow is more important than today when it's not promised!  I really believe that sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.  I will write one day about all of these things when I know and I'll try to remember exactly how I felt today. I'll back to all places which I visited with a free mind and I'll remember all the memories and all peoples which I met oneday and I'll smile when I see my past footpath .I will cry that day when I know  how easily I missed some precious moments  carelessly just because of tomorrow. I should do something before it will be too late......

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